RELATIONSHIP MATTERS

IS HE OR SHE GENUINE ?

She walks past you, you suddenly forget all your worries and begin to imagine life with her. Her beauty and countenance, her manner of approach, her lovely body physique, and her tender smile and lots more.

You see him, quite handsome, much vested in knowledge, hardly shy, body built and fluent in speaking. He is every girl`s dream and he is being talked about most of the times.

Feelings begin to spout out and with time it will become obvious that you want the person.

You already see yourself living and being in a relationship with him/her. But you need to ask yourself a whole lot of questions.

Is he or she genuine?

Is he or she good for me?

His or her inner character?

Are the characteristics of being in a perfect relationship present?

Things like this should come into your mind. In this present age, lust has taken over the feeling of love totally. People do not reason, think or ponder before venturing into a relationship.

People have this strange belief: “The person is cute and everyone likes him/her, what could possibly go wrong?” A lot can surely go wrong. 

A popular saying goes “Don`t judge a book by its cover.” You don`t know how that person is on the inside. Before starting a relationship, it is advisable to study that person.

You need to know a lot before you take any step, because once a mistake is made, it is hard to correct.

Nowadays it is impossible to find someone that does not have friends or worse a friend. Everyone surely got someone.

Steps

1. You use his/her friends to gain knowledge on how the person behaves. Ensure the questions are not being direct to avoid suspicion.

2. Establish a bond with the person in question to see how reactions come up. Try to spot anger, procrastination, being flirty and ability to pay attention.

3. Show help towards the person and see if such is being returned.

4. Find out whether he/she is in a relationship or was in a relationship. This is very vital, because there is hardly a handsome guy or cute lady that has been single from the start.

  Something must have taken place. Either he/she is involved in a long distance relationship, just passed through a breakup or is a dangerous flirt. You must be sure before getting past this step or it will bring you pains later in life.

If the person is already dating or has crazy characters, please abstain quickly to avoid tears and unnecessary pain.